Sara woke up to the sound of her alarm clock blaring at 6 a.m. She groaned and rolled over, not wanting to get out of her warm bed. But she knew she had to start getting ready for work. As she dragged herself to the bathroom to start her morning routine, her thoughts drifted to her mother.
Pics on https://pixabay.com/It had been 5 years since her mom passed away suddenly from a heart attack at the young age of 50. Sara still missed her mother terribly every day. Growing up, her mom had been her rock - always there for her through everything. Whether it was helping with homework, cheering her on at sporting events, or just listening when Sara needed someone to talk to, her mother was always her number one supporter.
After graduating college, Sara moved across the country for her job. Being so far away from home was hard, but her mother made sure to call or video chat every single day to check-in. Even after Sara got married and had kids of her own, her mom was still her confidante. When Sara's kids were born, her mother flew out right away to help care for the newborns in those difficult early weeks. She cooked meals, did laundry, and gave Sara much-needed breaks so she could rest.
Sara's husband was wonderful, but he couldn't fill the role that her mother played in her life. Only a mother truly understands the unique bond between a mother and daughter. Sara's kids adored their grandmother and she was so excited to watch them grow up. But then so suddenly, that joy was taken away. Losing her mother was like losing a part of herself. In the years since, Sara had tried her best to keep her mother's memory alive for her kids, but it wasn't the same.
As Sara finished getting ready that morning, she heard her 6-year-old daughter Emma calling for her from the kitchen. "Mommy, I can't find my shoes!" Sara walked out to find Emma in tears, her untied shoes thrown across the room in frustration. Sara knelt down and gently tied Emma's shoes for her while giving her a hug. "It's okay sweetie, Mommy's here to help."
In that moment, Sara was struck by the realization that in many ways, she had taken the role of both mother and grandmother in Emma's life since her own mom passed. When Emma needed help getting dressed, or with homework, or had a bad dream, it was Sara who soothed her fears just as her own mother once had. While Sara deeply missed the guidance and support of her mom, she found purpose in being there for her daughter the way her mother was always there for her.
Dropping Emma off at school, Sara's thoughts continued to linger on her mom. She wished more than anything that her children could have experienced the unconditional love of a grandmother. But she took comfort in knowing that through her, her mom's memory lived on. A mother's love is unlike any other, and Sara was determined to pass that same selfless, nurturing love to her own children. No one could ever replace the special bond between a mother and child, but Sara had come to realize that in her own way, she could take the place of her mom for Emma. The circle of motherly love continues, even after death.
As Sara drove to work that
morning, she felt both sadness for what was lost but also gratitude for the
role she now played. A mother's love truly is irreplaceable. But through that
love, a mother can live on, touching future generations, long after she is
physically here. Sara knew that as long as she was there for Emma with the same
compassion and care that her own mother showed her, a part of her mom would
always be with them.